First Meeting Charts indicate which energies are present during the meeting to either help or hinder its development. How to make a First Meeting Chart: Create a Natal Chart in the same way you would for a person, but use the EXACT time and place that you met the other person IN PERSON.Hey guys! Welcome back to Lavendaire, I continue this series of fun self-discovery tools on my channel, so if you missed the first article I was talking about tarot cards and how to use them as a beginner because I'm a beginner, today I am super excited to be talking about astrology. Astrology is something that I've been dealing with for most of my life, literally since I was a kid, and it's not that I'm an expert on it or anything. But I was more into astrology and natal chart reading last year than I read Steven Forrest's book The Inner Sky.
I've learned a lot about reading the natal chart, a lot about astrology and the meaning of I know I know more about astrology than the average person. So this article is for the average person. If you are an expert there is no need to look at this.
But I just want to explain astrology more deeply than just your sun signs. So get ready for a fun article! First things first, let's clarify: astronomy is the scientific exploration of celestial bodies, so it is based on cts and research, and astrology is the interpretation of celestial bodies, that is, this is how we interpret what is on Heaven is. It's the poetry, it's the art.
But it's really cool that everything has a meaning and it's not exactly scientific, but it's more of an art. So what is a natal chart? Your astrological natal chart is basically a snapshot of the sky at the time and place where you were born, where in the world you were born and the exact time, it is the picture of what is in heaven. It is a kind of map of all the planets, the sun and the moon.
So it is very important to be precise about the exact time that you were born because every hour or two your natal chart changes because the sky moves - no, the earth moves - and so moves the snapshot of the sky were born if you can get your exact natal chart r side note: if you are chinese, i know there is a superstition in chinese culture, because of feng shui and all that stuff, never to give your date / time of birth to anyone out there. So I don't want to post my exact natal chart or anything. But it's because we believe that once someone knows your exact date and time of birth, they'll know a lot about your destiny and people can use it against you.
So this is something that I personally - because my mom influenced me - personally I would like to keep it a little bit more secret, so just let you guys know. So how do you get your natal chart read? There are many websites where you can enter this information. Café Astrology is one, Astro.com is another.
And there are also plenty of mobile apps that you can use to check your natal chart. My favorite astrology app is co-star. This one is very modern and chic and outlines your natal chart and all of the details in a very neat way.
So check out these - I'll link them below. Now let's talk about the original triad which is your sun, moon, and ascendant. Sometimes people also refer to the ascendant as their 'ascending' sign.
In general, these are the three most important signs on your natal chart. So you might see other people who are really interested in astrology, they will list all three signs because all three are important in listing more than just your sun sign. Your sun sign only depends on the day you were born what time of year you were.
I was born in October so I'm a Libra. BTW, I have this diary where I made a lot of notes from the astrology book I read so I can refer to it now and then. In general, your sun sign represents your ego, your personality, your self-image.
It's the core of who you are. Your moon sign represents your emotional self. Your moon is your sensitivity, your emotions, your feelings, your mood, your heart.
Sometimes people refer to their moon sign more than their sun sign because your moon is your emotional self and you feel more with that sign. And whatever sign you are in your moon, that is an indication of what makes you happy and what makes you feel fulfilled. Well, I'm a Sagittarius moon and Sagittarius is adventure and exploration, trying new things, and I can often really relate to that too.
Your ascending or 'ascending' sign is essentially your mask for the world. It's how other people perceive you. Think of it as a first impression.
Other people may see you in a certain way when they first meet you, and then when they get to know you they realize, 'Oh, you really are like a different kind of person.' So your ascendant is how you appear to be Other, and just so you know, my rising sign is Gemini. By the way, in order not to make this article too long, I am not going to go into the details of the meaning of each sign, planet, and all because there are tons of resources online about that.
I'm actually going to make simple notes for you to read on my blog post, just quick keywords and notes on each character, planet, or house. After receiving your natal chart, you can write down your sign, moon, and rising sign. And then you can take a look at the notes I made on my blog post and see what corresponds to each character.
One way to understand your original triad sign is to summarize it in a sentence like this: 'I am a __, with the soul of a __, wear the mask of a __' Depending on your sign, you will find the meaning and the archetype of your sign and just pocket the words. For example for me: I'm an artist with the soul of a philosopher wearing the mask of a teacher, that's because an artist is what a Libra is, the philosopher is an archetype of the Sagittarius moon and the teacher is one of the archetypes for a twin. I hope this made sense and I hope it helped.
So that was the basics. Ready to dive deeper? Let's go! Let's talk about the constituent parts of the natal chart. As I mentioned earlier, there are 12 signs, you've heard these before - Aries, Scorpio, Libra, Leo - all of these I know do not take them one after another.
And then there are ten planets, and after 'planets'
According to a 2001 study published in Correlation, astrology has a much greater following by women than men. The study found that 72% of women believe astrology is more than just a superstition, and that 90% actively seek out their partner's zodiac sign to confirm compatibility. .
Just be me, what I love most about Chrisis. He's so outgoing that I feel like I can tell him anything and he doesn't judge me at all Chris's most quality is that he tends to repress his emotions instead of talking about Jenna's worst quality is that she is very messy is, jadas is everything, she is not as messy at times as about Jenna's very ambitious life and inspires others that I am in I can really see what will become of this, what do you think it will become, have no expectations at all, okay hi, I'm LexiLafleur and I'm an astrologer in Sydney today I have two charts in front of me Chris and Jenna, so let's start with Sun Science Jenna'ssign is a Taurus Taurus is an earth sign Jenna you would be very practical, very grounded, very logical, very calm but extreme stubborn and extremely attuned to your way Horses always work their lives are based on work and work Taurus don't like to be wrong that's like one of Die b The most well-known traits of a Taurus is that you are usually right, you are usually very well researched, but you know that you are human and you are wrong and I just don't feel like Jenna is going to admit Chris too often you you are re sunshine you are an Aries and Aries is a fire sign you Chris are really quite sporadic quite impulsive quite changeable and flexible and sometimes you could bump your heads but it's really nice full combination because your gender would be very consistent and grounding for Chris and Chris would be really exciting and passionate and committed to you Jennayes pretty hard in jail I'm definitely stubborn I'm always right I've worked I've always worked yeah I was really surprised that I did I don't know that was a tourist thing but that explains a lot about me with Jenna we start with you and your moon sign is a Leo Leo is super playful super proud super loyal super passionate definitely Leo hates to lose love and can really go under your skinyou Chris has an Aquarius -Moon, which is so cool and is also somehow considered an unemotional sign.
Chris as I sometimes feel like I'm in a partnership it would be quite difficult to read emotionally because even though you are an Aries the sun is expressive and funny and known for being emotionally there are a lot of things that you hold like a little vault in your Aquarian moon and your partner would definitely feel and be frustrated that you seem really cold or distant or just not ready to go into that emotional vault, oh my god that explains that a lot because I have no emotions at all Jenna, your mercury sign is not a Taurus which is in line with your sun sign but it's also really intense like it's a Taurus one-two for Chris I'm kind of sorry for you like you just think like Do you want to argue against General with her Mercury sign and Taurus is just there is no winning Jenna as you are really very self-confident you are really assertive if you recommunicate Jenna if you feel upset or wrong you will be quite a drama queen because you moon and your tourists sunshine and your tourists mercury really isn't I want to admit that, so Chris, your mercury sign is not pisces have pisces feeling like you have your own inner reality Jenna, you are probably the one who asks Chris a lot of times how he feels and wants to solve things and work through and discuss, and Chris, who you do not really bring up conflict and communicate she and would like to go into it sometimes it's how frustrating - in a partnership that was just right, so you'll just polarize yourself, then I'll never fight Jenna your Venus is in Gemini and that changes everything, that's super compatible with Chris you are extremely flexible in the way you can give and show love, and you want variety in the way you receive love annst ChrisVenus is in Taurus so you've got a bit of that toric energy too and that's really good news for both of you The way you give Jenna love and show Jenna caring is super grounded undeniably realistic practical maybe a little bit sometimes boring but Jennare loves it in regards to Chris' love sign I think this definitely sounds right to me instead of expressing his feelings what my immediate reaction is his immediate reaction well what can I do Jenna and Chris i think your charts are super compatible you definitely have your challenges but they are super minor and they are definitely usable when you look at your whole map, everything is so nicely balanced and mixed up that it's pretty interesting and crazy I don't think I've seen a more compatible map so I think the cool challenge for you guys would be if Chris you could just be a bit more verbal with your emotions and expressions - Jenna should probably really appreciate that, and Jenna I think if you could give Chris the space sometimes to not be so well worded, not so confident and not so composed and not so too know how he feels, i'm talking about divorce and i think this is a good start. I'm relieved that we're compatible according to astrology Chris who was the least accurate was actually such sunshine, it wasn't one hundred percent accurate, but then everything else is fine when you bring in all of you who say so much about our relationship explained and the way we interact and i think like the advice she gave him ismr. Prater expresses my feelings more, are you happy that we fit together, I knew that we are now saying the stars that we are too
Malefic planets, especially Mars, Saturn, Rahu, and Sun, can lead to breakups or divorces. The effects of malefic planets can be quite adverse to your relationship. A planet combination such as Mars with Venus and Saturn can ruin the state of your relationship and can break even a flourishing relationship.
Sadhguru: So, 'How did I ever marry you?' I think a lot of you are asking that question. (Laughter) So when someone asks that question, you have to look to yourself, what happens to you. Someone wondering after many years, 'How did I ever marry you', do you really have to look at yourself, not past lives, this life how? you live. (Laughter) So if any of you are wondering, 'How did I ever marry you', don't think about previous lives, you have to see how you live this life.
It is very important. (laughs) So I think that's all Bombay Talkies problem Janam janam mei… (part of some Hindi songs that mean lots of births) whatever. (Laughter) I think it's all gone in the new films, right? (Laughter) You you grew up watching movies from the 70s and 80s, so it's all Janam Janam business. (Laughter) Look at all of the young people in the new films, okay? (Laughter) You're not a Janam Janam anymore. (Laughter) They all think of relationships, expiration dates, and (Laughter and applause) So (laughs) So if your pursuit of truth is guided by commercial cinema, hmm, then (laughs) you're asking for trouble, you know. (Laughs) So, if the only way to hold onto someone is to believe that we have held together for many lifetimes, then that's a terrible way to live together. (Laughter) (laughs) No? No, I'm with you because I've been here with you for many lives.
It's a terrible way to be together, isn't it? I am with you now because I want to be with you; that's a nice way to be with someone, isn't it? 'I am with you because you have known the last three lives ...' (laughter) - please don't create such horrors in your life, when three lives were together, means that it is time to part. (Laughter) No? People keep coming to me; they have guided me through this work all along: “Sadhguru, was I with you last life?” (Laughter) What makes you think if I had seen you in your last life? would you ever stand in front of you again? (Laughter) What happened ...
I'm telling you what happened yesterday doesn't matter. Now you are trying to make a consequence of what could have happened, what could have happened. You don't even know what could have happened in another life, you know, almost everyone talks about their school or student life like, 'Oh, those were the golden years of my life.' We know what the golden years were.
When you were there you were tense, you were scared of shit about your exams, you hated your teachers and you didn't want to go to school - those were the golden years now because they are over. (Laughter) Because you don't have to go to school anymore, they're gold. I think you will feel that way after your marriage too (Laughter) If you feel that way after your marriage, when it's over, that's not good.
If you feel that way when it goes, that's great, isn't it? After it's over you feel, 'Oh, it was so wonderful, but ...' (laughter) You know, that's not good, if you feel like that when it's on, that's great.
So don't waste your time digging into the past. I'm telling you this damn memory paralyzes you. It does not allow you to use your mind as an instrument of penetration, as an instrument to open up the dimensions of life.
Now (laughs) You want to pick up all the residue that others have forgotten, and that's the only way you can get in touch with your husband or wife - what a pathetic way to deal with people! See if you can find value in the person who sits in front of you for what he or she is now, not for what he was somewhere.
The aspect of modern society today is that we are not you for cherish what your father was, we cherish you for what you are. Hmm? 'Whose son are you, whose daughter are you?' It doesn't matter. Unfortunately, most of the people still live in it.
Who you are matters, doesn't it? Yes? What you have made of yourself now is important. Who your father was not important is the great change that we have made from the feudal way of life to a modern society. We're a bit of a mess, but it's a pretty significant step, isn't it? Is it not so? Quite a significant step that no one asks me who your father is; they just look who I am.
Isn't that a very big step? But if you came here 50 or 100 years ago no one would look you in the face and ask who you are, they would just ask who your father is. Yes? That has changed significantly. So what were you in your previous life is worse than asking who your father is? s. (laughs) What are you right now, that's the most important thing, isn't it? What have you just done with your life, that is the most important thing.
So don't waste your time and life digging into something.
7th house of the native chart is the lord of Love and matrimonial harmony. It also signifies love and marriage. This house also provides information about the physical appearance, complexion and nature of your husband. .
In electional astrology, an astrologer is given an event the querent intends to plan. The astrologer then finds a date and time most auspicious for the event to take place, around which the querent bases the following plans.
The answer to the question of whether astrology could tell if a love relationship would last is an absolute yes. .
During Kundli matching, the horoscopes of the bride and groom are matched to ascertain whether their married life will be happy and successful. If 18 or more points match, it makes a good marriage and if the matches are below 18 points, then the marriage is not approved by astrology. .
Here are a few transits which often bring separations/break-ups: Saturn conjunct/square/opposite natal Venus: Saturn, the planet of restriction, depression, pessimism, and separation, in contact with Venus, the planet of love, beauty, harmony, and one-on-one relationships often results in separations and break-ups. .
The second is marriage is seen from the 2nd house of Horoscope. 8th house shows Longevity. So 8th house from 7th house i.e. 2nd house will indicate the second marriage in astrology.
According to the Vedic Astrology, marriage should not be done in any situation if there is a similar Nadi of the boy and girl. If the Nadi of the bride and groom is identical, then it is considered to be Nadi Dosha(defect) and marriage is not allowed in the same Nadi. .