Birthday Horoscope Of People Born On October 13. IF YOUR BIRTHDAY IS ON OCTOBER 13, then you are likely a Libra who is quiet, but you have a tendency to be a dreamer. Idealistically, you are the perfect person, but you have your insecurities. Mainly, this is due to the fact that you set your goals too high.
WINFREY: So if you are a parent in the middle of a divorce or have even been divorced for years, today we have urgent news for you because if you don't know how to talk to your kids about your divorce in the right way , and there is a right way and a very, very wrong way, you will feel a heavy burden. They will internalize it and they will always blame themselves. I invited an expert to our show who I believe offers the best and most accurate advice for families going through a divorce or living with the consequences of a divorce.
We look forward to having you back. M GARY NEUMAN: Thank you. WINFREY: And over the years you say we've had a lot of bad divorces and one of the worst things parents do is criticize each other about it, right? Mr.
NEUMAN: Absolutely, yes. Yes, when they make themselves bad they wonder if they can love each other. Children should be able to love both parents, and if you say bad things about the other person, they will feel disloyal to you for actually loving the other person.
And they should never have to make such a choice. WINFREY: So that's one of the biggest mistakes? NEUMAN: That's the biggest complaint I get from children about putting the other parent down like that. WINFREY: Okay, so you know a lot of families break up after an affair.
Gary spent time with 11 year old Daisy and her 7 year old brother Kris, who have many feelings about their family separation. NEUMAN: So what happened when you were married? DAISY, 11: You were nice. You were so nice and everything.
And then they started cheating on him and everything. She introduced me to him once. NEUMAN: She introduced you to the guy? DAISY: Uh-huh.
Mr. NEUMAN: To the friend? DAISY: Mm-hmm. Or guy or what - I don't know if he's a friend or what.
NEUMAN: Whatever. But that - so that must have been very strange. DAISY: Oh, yes.
Mr. NEUMAN: Did he ask you to lie to dad about a friend or something? DAISY: Yeah, he said that - she would say that, we just went somewhere. She tells us to just say we just went to a store or something and we actually went to see her boyfriend or something.
NEUMAN: So - how are you then? You feel pretty - yes. KRIS 7: I was really sad and very angry. NEUMAN: Insane what? KRIS: I don't want her to have a boyfriend because she was already married.
DAISY: It's not right to be with another person when you're married. KRIS: Mm-hmm. Mr.
NEUMAN: Have you ever told mom? DAISY: What? No, of course. KRIS: Yes, I've told her once or twice. NEUMAN: What did she say Kris? KRIS: She said I don't care.
Mr. NEUMAN: So, can you tell me about it if you know this is going on and that you will be a part of it or know about it and stuff? Gosh, DAISY: Yeah, I don't really wanna be a part of it or anything. I really don't want anything to do with my mother.
NEUMAN: Because you're so mad? DAISY: Oh yeah, and then my dad said if I didn't talk about things like that, one day I might explode and everything. NEUMAN: Yeah, I hope your head won't blow away. KRIS: Bye Arm.
Mr. NEUMAN: Yes-no, I don't think so. DAISY: Yes, Mr.
NEUMAN: What does he mean, explode? DAISY: How ...
KRIS: Let your emotions explode. DAISY: Yes. Fine That's a good way to put it, Kris.
Mr. NEUMANN: Very good. Do you miss your mother? KRIS: No.
She's very rude so I don't want a nicer mom if I ever get another mom. NEUMAN: Mm-hmm. You're still sad I think she decided not to be here, right? KRIS: Yes.
Mr. NEUMAN: Yes. What makes you sad now What are you thinking? KRIS: We went to Daddy about that one day and ...
Mr. NEUMAN: Yeah, and what happened, honey? KRIS: My mother is gone and I don't want her to go away. NEUMAN: You didn't want mom to go away, did you? That makes sense.
That's sad - it's very sad to see them go away. Did you think you'd see her again? Have you seen her since then? Even though you're mad at her, you still wish she'd come back and be a good mom, right? Tell me, Kris, tell me a little bit about it. Tell me what you really wish your mother would do.
KRIS: Be a mother - be a nice mother and a very good mother. And never have a boyfriend again. WINFREY: Now we're all crying, but ...
WINFREY: it's okay.
Daisy and Kris say they haven't seen their mother in over two years. You're doing a good job. That was really brave of you.
Wasn't that brave of him, audience? GROUP, AUDIENCE: Yes. WINFREY: And so brave of Daisy, so brave of Daisy, who, at the age of 11, takes on the role of mother for him, both of you. You know, you talk to a lot of other kids out there who ...
WINFREY: feel just like you.
A lot of other kids suffer just like you and you had the courage to say it on national television. And this is how many children feel. How can Jim - what can he do to help them? Mr.
NEUMAN: Well, first of all, you understand that with all this sadness we shouldn't be depressed. We should be upset if they don't express that. That's what this is about.
WINFREY: Yeah. Mr. NEUMAN: If he can't find out, if you don't, imagine how numb and what must be happening to you inside.
WINFREY: What happens is, especially with boys, you know, girls get depressed and young boys take these feelings ...
Mr. NEUMAN: Flatline, numb it WINFREY: Flatline, and then get angry later, Mr. NEUMAN: Yeah.
WINFREY: You're angry. That's why you see so many angry boys and men. Because they are not allowed to express their feelings.
NEUMAN: So the most important thing about parenting is that we have to remember - I keep getting calls and emails about the script? What exactly do I say to my child? And what we have to remember is that we heal through love and connection. That is the magic of being human. When we all think back to something that happened to us personally, we got through it and felt better just because someone talked to us.
WINFREY: Mm-hmm. Mr. NEUMAN: So the most important thing is to take the pressure off yourself as parents of saying the right words.
It is the feeling. It's looking at these kids and saying, my goodness, I know it hurts. It makes sense that it's sad.
And I wish I could do something else. But we're family and we'll get through this. And you can tell dad he's strong enough, he's big enough.
Look at this guy. He's really broad-shouldered, okay? Mr. NEUMAN: He's here for you.
And you can tell him anything. And that's the point. You just have to let them know you're getting them, you really understand and understand them JIM: Some of this, you know, when I just see the tape and stuff I try to talk to them and tell them that they should help, you know? , talk to me about it if you ever want and everything else.
And that's the first time I've seen it of him and then it's disturbing. NEUMAN: You make a great point that a lot of parents say, well, I said to my child, if you ever have a problem, just come to me, come and talk to me. It's too intense.
You-we know how kids feel. So we have to go to them and say you know something? I know this time is tough. Your mother is not here.
I know it must be sad for you Embrace the feeling and they will come out with it. Some parents are scared, well, if I say that, maybe they aren't really sad and I'm going to bring out something they don't feel. Ridiculous.
You feel it inside. You don't attract them. So go to them.
WINFREY: Ridiculous, because what I learned when you were here many years ago are kids - first of all, they have something like a little vibrating antenna. NEUMANN: Yes. WINFREY: You feel it, even if you don't think you feel it ...
Mr. NEUMAN: Yes. WINFREY: and you know something is going on, even if you think you don't know if you haven't talked about it, and the thing about your little vibrating antenna because you're a kid , the whole world revolves around you and you then think it's your fault.
That everything that went wrong was due to something you did. WINFREY: Well, like I said, children often blame themselves after a divorce. They can also have a secret belief that they can somehow fix things.
Here is more of Gary's scandalous conversation with Kris and Daisy. NEUMAN: What's it like to be hurt? I mean, what is it like feeling hurt when she says I'm going to meet you? DAISY: And she doesn't? Mr. NEUMAN: And it doesn't.
I mean, this is ...
DAISY: It makes me sad and all. For example, I try to put on perfume to make her think I smell nice, and then I try to put on little lipstick - not like dark lipstick, but light lipstick so she thinks I look pretty too. And then I try to put my hair up, even though I don't like to put it up.
NEUMAN: Because if you do ...
DAISY: She will-she might come back. Mr. NEUMAN: And it doesn't work? DAISY: No.
I do not think so. No it doesn't work, Mr. NEUMAN: So what do you say, what do you say to yourself in your head when that doesn't work? DAISY: I say damn it.
Why not? I try and I try and I keep forgiving. Mr. NEUMAN: Do you think you could have done something about it, Kris? KRIS: I got on my knees and gave her puppy eyes.
And it worked. It didn't work this time. NEUMANN: Yes.
You feel like you can't make it - you couldn't make her stay around, huh? KRIS: Mm-hmm. Mr. NEUMAN: Do you sometimes feel like you could have done something else to ...
KRIS: Mm-hmm. Mr. NEUMAN: What do you think of that? KRIS: I thought I could buy her something because I usually take out the laundry and all.
So - I got pocket money for it. And then I have enough money to buy her a fake ring. It could match her finger.
And I went dad, can I buy this? And dad said I'll think about it. NEUMAN: Did you think if you bought her the ring she might stay? KRIS: Mm-hmm. Mr.
NEUMAN: Have you ever bought the ring? KRIS: Yes. But she didn't want it. And it didn't bring her back.
NEUMAN: In the past you have heard me say that you never criticize the other parent because when you criticize the other parent you are criticizing your child's DNA. Here's an example of where we're breaking this cardinal rule. You see, children under these circumstances, we cannot make them feel that they are responsible for the rejection of the parents who left them.
This is the time we need to tell our children it is wrong as parents not to be there for your child, who can sometimes see physical trauma, bruises and broken bones - sometimes people have problems on their minds and it is limiting and it prevents parents from giving the love children deserve. You are hugged enough, you are lovable enough. You should have that - that's a good smile.
WINFREY: You are pretty enough. NEUMAN: Yes. WINFREY: You're pretty enough, Mr.
NEUMAN: You smell good enough. NEUMAN: Your father is here because you are great and you deserve to have two parents. And if you have this, that will be good enough.
You didn't let them go away and you can't bring them back. WINFREY: Well, Gary asked Daisy to write her mother a letter expressing her feelings. It is important to express the feelings whether or not your mother ever receives the letter.
NEUMANN: Right. It is that expression. We have to convey that.
Regardless of who it is addressed to, the expression itself is healing. WINFREY: Okay. Will you read it for us DAISY: Yeah.
WINFREY: Okay. DAISY: Dear mom, I miss you so much. I wish you were here for our girls' day where we went shopping and got our nails done.
I miss baking ...
WINFREY: Let me read it. Let me read it for you, okay? You're doing fine, but let me read it. Is it okay if i read it? OK.
I miss baking cookies as a family and you help us do our homework. I still love you mom, but what you've done in the past doesn't make me love you as much as I used to. I just wish the divorce never happened and you never did what you did.
Daddy always says it's never my fault you left, but sometimes I think it is. I know one day you will regret it and I hope you learned your lesson. With love, Daisy.
PS, I love you deep down and sometimes I love you so much that I can't hide it. Really well done. DAISY: Thank you.
WINFREY: Really well done. Really well done, Mr. NEUMAN: Very well done.
WINFREY: And do you think Kris is old enough to write a letter? NEUMAN: It is. WINFREY: Yeah. Should i read it? OK.
Dear mom i love you Why can't we be together Why don't you wanna see me When I think about you and papa not living together, I feel so sad. I don't understand why you got divorced. Sometimes I dream that dad is sad because he doesn't have you with him.
I wish you hadn't gotten divorced. Dear Kris. Very good letter.
KRIS: Thank you, Mr. NEUMAN: You see, children want to feel ...
WINFREY: Very good letter, Mr. NEUMAN: Kids want to feel responsible for the divorce because they think that gives them a sense of control, that I can get them to come back and do something like that. WINFREY: Right.
Mr. NEUMAN: But they do. This - I know it doesn't look like you're feeling any better at the moment, but the experience that they can figure it out and finally get in touch with you - tomorrow and the next day they'll go they lighter and the sparkle in their eyes more and more will come back.
WINFREY: Yeah. It doesn't mean the pain will go away. NEUMAN: Right.
WINFREY: And that doesn't mean they still don't want their mother to come back. NEUMAN: Right. WINFREY: But at least it takes some of that burden off.
Do you feel a little better, Daisy? DAISY: Mm-hmm. WINFREY: Do you think you're feeling a little better? DAISY: Yeah. WINFREY: are you? KRIS: Mm-hmm.
WINFREY: Okay. You don't have to say it if you don't. Maybe you feel a little better tomorrow.
Feel a little better Well thank you Jim. Thank you for ...
JIM: Thank you. WINFREY: for trying to do the right thing.
Thank you for continuing to communicate with your children, it's when you do other things and we don't just sit down and talk or don't expect them to come to you ...
Mr. NEUMAN: Right. WINFREY: and start the conversation.
Yes, because it's too heavy a burden for you. It's too much for you. Yes.
Zodiac signs, astrology, and the animals you bond with most go hand in hand. But how much of it is true? Hey viewers and welcome back to another article! Have you ever wondered what animal you are according to your zodiac sign? You like it, maybe you can resonate with some of its properties. You may also feel closer to some of them than to others.
It's not surprising as we tend to look for our own traits in our favorite animals. Zodiac signs are usually symbolized by an animal. They represent your personality, your characteristics, and your general mood.
Do you think of yourself like a hawk? A snake? The majestic wolf? Or the wise old owl? Stay tuned to find out! 1. Aries When you see an Aries symbol it represents Aram, which means fire, strength, and energy. Driven by passion, loyalty, and leadership roles, it is most likely the animal you are with You identify yourself the most.
You may or may not know this, but hawks are another animal that you are most likely to share traits. Just like a hawk, an Aries is a born leader. He's good in groups, but unstoppable when he's working alone.
He is known for his fiery spirit, intensity and utter self-awareness through her super confident, watchful and seductive personality. Are you an Aries or do you know someone who it is? Is a hawk the right choice? Tell us all about it in the comments below. 2.
Taurus: Taurus is one of the most powerful zodiac signs. Coupled with productivity and drive, a Taurus person is practical, ambitious, and very determined. It is known for its bull-like stability and robustness.
So of course a bull is the right animal for you! He moves slowly, steadily, observing everything around him. As a Taurus, two of your greatest virtues are patience and persistence. You can be very persistent when you have a goal in mind.
When faced with adversity, instead of panicking, you know, wait calmly and with greater purpose start all over again e of peace, all without getting tired and without wasting time like a Taurus! 3. Twins Gemini born people bring in the summer mood! Just like the time of year, they're playful, vibrant, and full of color; they're also known for being socially active and intellectually curious while balancing their life, hobbies, career, and friends. It should come as no surprise that a deer is the perfect animal to identify with.
Much like their human counterparts, deer are fun and energetic full of game and not afraid to show themselves off. Always on the lookout for a crowd, they're great conversation starters. They enjoy being in a social setting and interacting with everyone.
The deer can also be very charming and motivating friends to look up to. 4. Cancer: The Cancer sun sign is represented by an Arabic symbol.
However, the animal associated with cancer is a rabbit! That's right. People who are under Born with this sun sign, they are shy and maybe even a little shy, but they are also clever and creative. Rabbits teach us to break through our fears instead of being overwhelmed by them.
Cancers are very complex people with colorful personalities. Jumping to the best possible solutions is your business. Of course you will feel overwhelmed and defenseless at times, but your ability to think outside the box makes you strong and fast. 5.
Leo Leo literally means lion. Known for his enthusiastic charisma and the ability to swim against the current, people born under this sign represent strength, endurance and bravery. Unsurprisingly, the animal associated with this zodiac sign is a dragon.
They are a symbol of leadership and mastery. These are the two personality traits that Leo people strive for in their professional and personal lives. Just like a dragon, Leo is noble and majestic, whose mere presence leaves a lasting impression on their surroundings.
They are powerful, courageous and always ready to fight for what is most important. 6. Virgo The fox is one of the animals with which virgins can identify.
They share several similar traits, one of which is their ability to adapt to their surroundings. This makes them some of the most versatile creatures on the planet. Although small, they make up for this in their mental strength agility.
A fox also means that you are analytical and adaptable. You can be comfortable in any situation. Sometimes this animal is cunning which means that its virgin human counterpart is always finds a way to get out of a tricky situation.
No matter how bad, your wit and intellect find your way around easily.7. Libra When you talk about Libra, all that comes to mind is balance.
It may surprise you that yours Animal is a raven! They are playful, intelligent and creative in their approach to life. As the perfect facilitator in any group, they are very diplomatic which makes them great listeners and counselors. They also have limitless energy and are incredibly easy going in all of their relationships.
Inside, they are romantic, patient, and caring. If they're not your usual charming self, they can come across as cheeky, demanding, and rude. But all in all, they are very caring and love to give their time and heart. 8.
Scorpio Scorpios are emotional, imaginative, and intense. Many people mistake a Scorpio for a fire sign, but their strength, passion, and emotional level make them a watermark. Unsurprisingly, the animal you best identify with is a snake.
Give them a purpose and they can change the world - there's no stopping them. They represent the transformation in human life. According to many cultures, the peeling of the skin is a symbol of the life-death-rebirth cycle.
These people believe in the pursuit of growth and after a while they will go back to the drawing board and want to rebuild their lives. You take on new life changing challenges and leave the old ones behind. Your will to improve yourself is what makes you unique.
Zodiac signs can help you find the perfect couple. Check out the zodiac signs that make perfect couples. Are you one of them? Now back to the species that make perfect couples They are based on your zodiac sign. 9.
Sagittarius: When It Comes Up Sagittarius are upbeat, freedom loving, intellectual, and hilarious! All of these personality traits together make the wise old owl your pet. Just like an owl, people born under this sign are very attentive. You can look through people to see the truth that lies beyond these layers.
Since they are easy going, they value relationships above all else. At worst, an owl can be viewed as reckless, insincere, or even selfish. An environment in which they can be cared for, protected, and loved is something they long for.
They are incredibly sensitive despite being independent. These people thrive in most areas of work, but are excellent as teachers, artists, or other professions that allow them to use their hands.10 Capricorn: The main mantra for a Ca pricorn born is that they will achieve anything, if they just focus on it.
They are hardworking and smart people who like to be in complete control of their destiny. The animal associated with this earth sign is the beautiful goose. Although they work hard and are ambitious, by nature they are most similar to a goose.
They set their own ideals and strive to surpass everything. They can evolve from solitary to social butterflies with ease. They are passionate, fun, and generous with their time and talent the goose must be careful because in the worst case scenario, they tend to develop compulsive behavior or even addictive traits.11 Aquarius Playful, creative and intelligent are some words to help describing the personality of an Aquarius-born human quirky nature of an otter.
You are happy with who you are and it doesn't matter what others think of you. You tend to go your own way, even if it's unpopular. You have many friends from vario and parts of life.
You can use your imagination to keep things interesting. In the worst case scenario, an otter can become a hermit by isolating himself from friends or family. But in the right environment, they are the perfect friend or companion. 12.
Pisces Pisces are the dreamers and thinkers of all zodiac signs. As a watermark and symbolized by a fish, they are highly sensitive and super deep with an abyss of emotions inside emotion. These are also the personality traits of a wolf.
Known for being passionate and deeply emotional, a wolf is very independent and can spend much of his life quite happily on his own. In the worst case, the wolf can become possessed by friends or family members, inconvenient, and even vengeful. But when things go well they are incredibly caring, gentle, and very loving.
Your ultimate goal in life is not only to find true love, but to nurture it for a lifetime. Do you match the animal based on your zodiac sign? Are you an otter, wolf, or hawk? Let us know in the comments below!
Libra, your spirit animal is a swan.20 2020 .
Facts Verse Presents Things Your Birth Month Reveals About You January babies born in January are considered headstrong and strong-willed when growing up they tend to be ambitious when born in January you're a people watcher you become People Observing and Studying as a Way to Learn About Others and About ThemselvesJanuary babies also have a strong desire to teach their fellow human beings and help them improve themselves. February, if you were born in February, they are likely to be very artistic and creative by February -Babies are also very smartPeople born in February are more likely to be free thinkers and sometimes rebelliousA good thing is that they are really in touch with their personality and know what they wantFebruary babies can be aggressive at times, but they also have a sensitive side That People Really Appreciate People born in March tend to be sch being more austere than most if it were you Born in March you usually keep your true personality hidden until you know someone very well March babies are nice to almost everyone and they want everyone to get along Kees said harmony is very much Important for March BabiesPeople born in March are very trustworthy It is true until that trust is broken, then all bets are off April April babies are often strong and athletic, they always seem to be around people who are in April Are born love attention and they are thrill seekers One reason they are always in a rush because they are looking for their next adrenaline rush April babies are usually no couch potatoes If you were born in April you are likely to have plenty of action and action adventure in your life May many people born in May be very attractive, using their left brain more than their right G half of the brain, which means that you are more logical than you are numbers and facts to be happy you have great dreams while you sleep and also for your future if you were born in May you use logic during the day and dream big at night. June June babies are very sensitive it doesn't take much to upset someone born in June but they won't let you know because they are so very polite June babies are rather soft-spoken, but because of them Quiet people often listen to them and they take their advice seriously.
If you are a June baby you like to please other people when you want the same thing as another person, if you are likely to stand aside for others, if you were born in July chances are you are getting full Energy, man it's fun to hang out with your friends, see your fiery personality and get them to hang out with you, say something to yourself, it only takes a second to come back with a hilarious comeback ersonable if you were born in August You are likely a born executive August babies use these leadership skills to thrive in both business and personal life September September babies are very detail-oriented If you were born in September you are likely a perfectionist, you always need to have everything perfect, and that's what you expect September babies have very high expectations of people in business life as well as of your private life n of organization and details and if someone falls short, September will criticize very quickly October October babies are very light and carefree, they are extremely independent, if you were born in September you often look on the bright side when you see the bright side Page cannot see well right away, then one has to strive to find one. Many people born in October are full of beauty and fun wherever they go because October babies are fun and talkative makes it easy for They are there to make friends in November, if you were born in November The Things Your Birth Month Reveals About You November babies are usually very stubborn and very secretive, when a November baby is really focused, bad The Potential for Greatness If you were born in November you are likely very astute and self-motivated November babies sometimes don't want help from anyone, even if someone bugs one m November baby offers help, they probably won't take it These people are not happy unless they can do something all by themselves If you were born in November you can grow up, but only if you want to become December December babies are fun and they love to be the center of attention when they are in a room full of people all the attention has to be on them if you were born in December you probably sit very actively in the house and watch TV that is not your thing the tea December babies are very proud of yourself and you don't I don't like to let anything hold you back when you are constrained by something, you have no problem fighting back so how did we do the month desc? ribe let us know in the comment section below and subscribe for more of you
October 13 zodiac people belong to the Libra-Scorpio Astrological Cusp. This is often referred to as the Cusp of Drama. The planets Pluto and Venus play an important role in your life. .
October 13th, 1999 : America became the first country to reject the 154 nation Nuclear test ban treaty with a vote of 51-48 in the US Senate. October 13th, 2011 : An earthquake with a magnitude of 6.1 struck the Indonesian island of Bali. .
International Day for Natural Disaster Reduction is observed annually on 13 October to raise awareness about the risk of disaster reduction. In 1989, the International Day of Disaster Risk Reduction was started by the United Nations General assembly. .
Gemini is a great match for a Libra. The two of them don't have to worry about balancing a social life and a relationship because both of them value a healthy and efficient social life. A Gemini is a great soulmate for Libra because will keep Libra entertained and won't ever stop wanting to get to know them. .
Birth Flowers for Libra: Bluebells. Large roses. Asters. .
Event of the Day - October 13 is celebrated as International Day for Natural Disaster Reduction. Almost every community experiences some of the many forms of natural disasters such as earthquakes, floods, tornadoes, lightning storms, or tsunamis.
If you were born on the Libra-Scorpio Cusp, from October 19 to October 26, you are one determined drama queen who can pull people in and spit them out just as fast! The Air element (Libra) meets Water (Scorpio) on the Cusp of Drama and Criticism, which can be calm and cool or a dangerous hurricane. .