PART 1 of What Do Men Find Attractive In Women BEHAVIOR
When it comes to attracting men, first impressions are very important. But what traits or traits do men really notice and what do they find most attractive? In this article you will learn about five surprising qualities that men find most attractive. So don't go anywhere because we'll start in 4 seconds.
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Have Ever wondered what men really notice or what really attracts them? I know it's an age-old question people have been asking for years, y evolutionary psychologists have been studying this question for decades and have come up with some tried and tested (and science-based) answers . So here are the top 5 in order of importance. Make sure to check out the whole article because not only are they all working together, the last one is the most important and the one who is easiest for you to embrace in your love.
So without further ado, number 55. Playfulness and Sense of Humor It should come as no surprise that a sense of humor ranks high on the list of qualities everyone says they look for in potential partners. Does that mean men are drawn to funny women, not exactly.
What I find funny (pun intended) is that men are no longer attracted to funny women, instead they are more attracted to women who value their sense of humor. In other words, men want women who laugh at their jokes. Shocking i know And what about playfulness.
Simply put, you have to be that person that he wants to be with you most, has to rock his world like no one else can and make him want more make him want more. and the only one who can satisfy that need that need is you so you have to create that dynamic that feeling that he can't get anywhere else.
Every time he thinks of you, it will be him when he thinks of the funny things. He will associate you with anything that is fun. And that's super attractive. 4.
Confidence Confidence is very sexy in both men and women. When you walk into a room like a model walking down a catwalk ...
Head up, shoulders back, arms swaying and hips turning every guy stares at you.
Why? Well, 'That Walk' is just one of the ways human women evolved to 'get and hold a man's attention as we evolved. Oh, and while you're taking this walk wear the color 'red.
Med are more attracted to women who wear the color red. Think about it hearts are red, valentines are red red roses are romantic it It is possible that the color red triggers a competitive advantage in men, so maybe men are more competitive than women in red and therefore desire them more. 3.
Independence - You have your own life. One of the most important things men find attractive in women is independence. In other words, men are drawn to women who have a life, not women who appear needy and clingy.
Unless they're controlling and abusive then you may need a woman who is needy, clingy, and ready to be controlled.
Here's an example ...
I love pizza ...
I don't just love it ...
I love, love it ...
I mean, I love it very much.
But what would happen if I ate it 24 hours a day, 7 days a week for a couple of months? I might be fed up with it somehow and certainly wouldn't appreciate it as much. The same is true in a relationship. Of course you love to be with the person, but you can't be with them all the time..for obvious reasons ..
Remember that people need to be autonomous, but they also need to be to connect and to be interdependent. You need a good balance so make sure you keep up with the life you had before you met him. Make plans with your girlfriends and keep your schedule full.
This goes a long way towards ensuring that he sees you as a high-quality woman with an exciting life ....
And if you do, he will want to be a part of it ....
And if he is not, he will feel it too. So yeah if you have your own life, men will find this independence sexy.
Now the last two are the two most important so keep looking and I'll tell you how to incorporate them into your life.2 Persistence and Loyalty One of the most important aspects of a healthy and successful romantic relationship has a strong foundation of honesty and loyalty.
When a man seeks a lifelong relationship, he wants a woman he can grow old with. And that starts with persistence and loyalty. Think back to a time when you really felt close and connected with your partner - or a time when you felt like you could tell your deepest secret to your partner and it would be accepted.
We all need that deep connection with someone and that deep and wonderful sense of intimacy blooms in an atmosphere of security opening up to us when we feel safe. We take risks when we are feeling safe. Create a safe zone in that he can express himself freely - to be himself.
That means being a person who is very accepted, caring and compassionate. When connected, when he's with you on an emotionally intimate level, he surely becomes you miss when he feels separated right? 1. Happiness and life satisfaction.
There is nothing more attractive and sexy than a person who is happy and living in the moment. A happy person is a sexy person. Many psychological studies have confirmed the relationship between happiness and attraction.
And put simply, the person's attractiveness is directly related to their expressions of joy and happiness. Think about how you felt when you were with someone who was genuinely happy. They radiate a certain energy - an energy that cannot be faked.
This energy is the result of real happiness and gives a person the appearance of being more alive and more in the moment. There is nothing sexier than a person fully present in the moment, and people want nothing more than to be happy, so when we see someone we believe has already found happiness, we feel automatic attracted to him or her. A happy person exudes contentment and positivity. that the majority of people are more attracted to.
People who see your true happiness will come to many conclusions: they will feel like you are open, easy to speak, and probably quite optimistic, and therefore they will think that you are someone whose company would make it up they smile for their part at the positivity it exudes. So you're more likely to attract people when you're happy. It is also a source of positivity for those around you.
It makes you both lovable and interesting. And finally, happy people love themselves for who they are. really happy, do not feel the need to look for contentment in others.
They accept and accept both their physical and emotional appearances, regardless of whether they get the same approval from others Video on How To Increase Happiness In Your Life, Check Out The Video I Link Here. Remember, attractiveness or sexiness is something much deeper than looks. It's more than just bone structure and skin tone or the curves of the body or the swaying of the hips.
Attractiveness is a quality of a person that is beyond the physical. It is magnetic chemistry that emanates from your attitude, energy, and happiness so I am excited to hear your thoughts on this list. Do you agree with my top 5? Or did I miss things that you thought were more important.
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12 things men secretly find sexy about women
There is great confusion between the two sexes as to how to wear the other. We all know the basics: humor, confidence, listening. However, there are still some things that even women don't realize are appealing.
Here are the secret things men do that women find attractive. Teen movies in the 1980s permeated us with the idea that the geek never gets the girl. So you'd think it would be a social disaster to rave about your love for StarTrek the first time, but that might not be the case.
Psychologist and PhD Jeanette Raymond told the AskMen site, It turns out that it doesn't matter if it's your favorite sports team or Power Rangers that excites you. Some call it geeking, others say it's passion, but according to dating expert Evan Marc Katz, regardless of the topic, it's a huge advantage in the dating world. Katz claims that women tell him all the time that they want someone who is passionate.
This just shows you some of the weird things your brain is doing without you even knowing. A study by the University of Rochester shows that women find men who wear red more attractive than those who don't. Andrew Elliot, the study's lead author and professor of psychology at the university, writes: Possible Reasons We May Associate Red with Power or Dominance.
Some scientists suggest that red is associated with aggressive behavior due to the redness of the face when a person is angry. Red has also been an expensive dye throughout history and has been banished to the rich and royalty. Perhaps our cultural assumption is that red means wealthy.
Whatever the reason, if you are a man you should be considering for To add a dash of scarlet to your next romantic adventure. We can all get by with a little help from our friends. A big part of being a good friend is being kind, and it turns out that's what women find very attractive. 'I know this sounds strange, but can we be best friends? Only we? Really?' we should all be best friends. `` We should be. '' Purdue University found that men who have steadfast friendships significantly increase their liking for women, and women rated traits like ego support, conflict management, and comforting skills as the most important aspects of a relationship, romantic or platonic.
In contrast, men rated persuasive and storytelling skills as more important. When your partner sees that you have the same qualities that she values in your friendships, she will see this as a sign that you are a good match. Although being friendly should always be a goal, it doesn't hurt that women tend to value a man's attractiveness and sex appeal higher if he shows trustworthiness, authenticity, and reliability.
Men and women spend almost the same amount of time in these days Kitchen. However, it looks like women are still excited to see their husband at the stove. 'If you could just cook now you'd be perfect ect!' A team of British neuroscientists carried out an experiment with 20 couples in which the women observed their male partners doing various tasks.
While their physiological responses were being monitored, women were more excited to watch their husbands in the kitchen than when he was doing more. stereotypical 'male' work, like chopping wood. Cooking even outweighed other household chores such as ironing or cleaning.
Seventy percent of the women in the study preferred making themselves a cup of coffee rather than receiving gifts or a hug. The power of a well-fed stomach shouldn't be underestimated! Studies have shown that women find men with lower voices attractive. However, there is one important factor that is even more important than the pitch; Breathability.
Scientists found that whether a voice was pitched high or low was less important than the breathability of the voice. This quality of voice is very similar to the sound of a man when he just wakes up. 'Ah crazy.' The experimenters concluded that this phenomenon was due to height.
For example, a higher pitch of a female voice usually indicates a smaller size, while a lower voice usually indicates a man with a larger physique. The problem with a deep voice, however, is that it can also be intimidating and suggestion-aggression, which is why breathability is so important. According to scientists, Miss Frizzle's smart advice 'take risks, make mistakes and get messy' turned out to be a great dating tip.
Women find men more attractive when they take heroic risks. According to various studies. Heroic is the key word here as women don't prefer men who take non-heroic risks, such as dangerous sports.
It is also quite possible that courage is more important than altruism when it comes to c hoosinga mate. This could explain why men with careers like pilot, firefighter, and doctor are among the most common right-wing candidates on Tinder. John Petraitis, professor of psychology at the University of Alaska, further explored the effects associated with technology.
He found that women found men more attractive when they displayed risky behavior in the wild, such as backcountry climbing, but in a modern society would not be drawn to risky behavior such as seatbelt-free driving. Petraitis suggests that this is due to evolutionary practices where behaviors related to a hunter-gatherer society are more attractive than those that are not. Sometimes, in fact, we may unwittingly subscribe to traditional gender norms and values.
A study by the University of British Columbia found that women find men more attractive when they are brooding than when they are happy and smiling, at least on first impression. The lead researcher, Professor Jessica a Tracy, reportedly brooding is a sign of pride that is evolutionarily attractive to women. Tracy went on to conclude: As we all try to develop our understanding of gender, maybe it is time women started telling men to frown more than they should respond when men ask them to smile Click here to watch one of our latest articles! And more list articles on your favorite topics will follow shortly.
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The study found that the first thing women notice upon passing a man on the street is the eyes.
Hey you. So I recently saw my friend Antonio from Real Men Real Style, we actually did a couple of collabs together, posted a article on the subject and then asked in his comments section what he missed, what else women first thing to notice about a man. Well Antonio, you've missed a lot.
As a woman, let me tell you the first few things we actually notice in a man. Starting with number 8, your smell. I'm talking about your overall smell .
This includes your body odor. So, are you fresh under your armpits or do you stink badly? Your breath too. Is it nice and minty and fresh or does it really stink? Eau de cologne or some kind of fragrance, is it really subtle, or does it hit everyone in the face as soon as they get near you? Your overall smell is an indication of how considerate you are to yourself and others.
Move on to number seven and that is your hair. Women will notice when your hair is super overgrown, when it's bold, or when it's got snowflakes, I call them snowflakes, snowflakes everywhere. We want your hair to look like you haven't gone too long between haircuts, it's styled appropriately no matter which hairstyle you choose, and it looks clean.
Cleanliness is very important. Nobody wants to get anywhere near someone who has really greasy, dirty hair. Moving on to number six, women are definitely going to notice your hands.
By that I mean how well-groomed and how clean you look. If you have hair on your hands, which most men do, you want to make sure it doesn't look like a gorilla, it won't look like a werewolf. Do you have a few dry spots? And are your fingernails nicely trimmed and clean or are they overgrown and dirty? Number five are your shoes.
Women will definitely get into your shoes and they want to see how clean they are, are they dirty, have they got a few signs of use, are they thinly worn? Are there holes everywhere? Your shoes are a really good indicator of how you will lead the rest of your life. That is why it is really important that you keep them clean. Number four is personality.
Whether we are interacting with you or just observing you from a distance. We want to know how you interact with others. How do you behave? Are you well behaved, what is your behavior? Are you a nice person? Are you funny, energetic, shy? women look beyond physical traits, I know this is really hard for men to understand because you are very visual creatures, but it's true.
If you have a bad personality then we don't want to be around you, I don't care how good you look or how much money you have. Next we will notice your clothes. It doesn't matter what style you adjusted, we want to see how put you look together.
It doesn't matter what body type you are because women don't immediately notice that if, and this is a big if, your clothes are in proportion to your body. If you wear clothes they are proportional to you, we won't notice any problem areas you have if you have any. Number two is your smile.
Antonio had that path further down the list, and so did I. I'm sorry, but it's one of the most important things. Her smile can instantly make a woman and anyone really feel super welcome and comfortable, very comfortable.
And while we're talking about your smile, we need to talk about your teeth. You want your teeth to have no food in between. They should be clean, fresh, and white.
And number one on the list, and while I have your attention please, if you enjoyed this article, give it a thumbs up, subscribe to this channel if you haven't already and hit the bell icons, so you get notified when I upload articles. But anyway, number one on the list (mimicking drum rolls) is your face. So, we're going to notice your features.
I'm sorry, but your traits are something we will notice. There is no getting around it and we will notice that. Plus, you want your skin to be clean.
Your eyes should be clear, you don't want them bloodshot. And you should take care of your facial hair properly. So your eyebrows should be don't all be crazy long, you want them to be trimmed.
Just like your nose hair, you don't want anything to stick out. And if you have stubble or facial hair, make sure it is trimmed properly. So these are the first things a woman notices about a man.
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They are a level up from their sane sisters in bed, and they tend to have high sex drives. The number one reason why guys are attracted to crazy women is because they're much more passionate than their non-crazy counterpartsand this passion ultimately makes them amazing sexual partners.
Twelve girls' habits that drive men crazy. Although some men judge a girl by her appearance first, her behavior plays a much bigger role in the long run. So we've put together a compilation of 12 habits girls might have that can drive men crazy.
Look out for habit number one. Literally no one likes to look at girls! Twelve - eating off their plate. The desire to have one of your fries Man's trying can annoy him for several reasons.
For starters, he can be a possessive person, or the lesser amount of food on his plate can make him hungry. So girls, if you want fries just order them for yourself. Elf - cleans up thinking it's a mess, is usually a system of well-placed items that work for the man.
Cleaning up your husband's belongings often leads to unnecessary fights. After you move things around, he probably won't find anything. Ten - Going out all the time.
Despite the fact that some men like women who know how to party, an excessive love of alcohol, partying, and nighttime adventures may not be well received by a person with serious intentions about you. The constant rush of gossip about what others look like and what's going on with their love life is just plain annoying. It also makes your husband wonder if you are talking about him behind his back.
Eight - dress inappropriately. Everything OK? Yeah, yeah, I'm running in a pair of new shoes right now. We all want to look flawless, even when walking in the park.
However, uncomfortable high heels and tight dresses are most likely not appreciated when your man has to carry you and listen to you complain about them all the time. Seven - take up all the space with your things. If you fill the entire bathroom with tons of products and use all the closets for your clothes, your guy is likely not to be amused, even offended.
You don't use most of your stuff anyway, and he now has to take care of the tiny shelf you left him. Six - drop clues. The desire for gifts is often vaguely communicated in the form of cues that men usually don't get; if a man really wanted to give you a gift but you suggested it yourself, he won't feel like it's his own decision was.
Otherwise, you will just make him feel bad and guilty for no reason you really think another transparent manipu- Oh it's a tiara! Tiara! Put it on me! Put it on me! Five - cry for no reason. Women's tears are high on men's fear list. They usually don't know what to do, especially when there isn't an obvious reason for the crying.
If this behavior becomes systematic, in time it will lead to irritation, not sympathy. Using tears to try to win an argument will only undermine his confidence and make you both bitter. My friend is the best! Takes four hours to get ready.
When it takes you a long time to get ready and break promises because when you straighten your hair, men will question your punctuality and responsibility. He probably won't even notice your new hairstyle if he has to wait for you for hours. Oh! Three - ask loaded questions.
I just answer. It's like a reflex. Do i look fat No.
Is she prettier than me No. Does size matter? No! It's always difficult when a woman asks if she looks pretty, fat, or old. Men are usually put in the corner.
There is usually only one right answer to such questions. Two - involving others in your arguments. When trying to resolve an argument with the opinion of your friends or parents, women usually lose their authority and leave men disappointed.
Your personal problems should between the two of you. One - freshen up in public. It's no secret that men love with their eyes.
Therefore, do not forget about personal hygiene and always look good. For example, extremely tight underwear will not only make you very uncomfortable, it will also ruin your entire look. If it takes a few seconds to fix your clothes or freshen up, apologize.
Please never do it in public. Remain mysteriously beautiful. Would you agree with our points? Yes or no? Share your thoughts in the comments.
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The answer is: They don't. Men don't find very skinny women attractive. These are similar to the BMI's men prefer when rating the attractiveness of images of women with varying BMIs. They might seem pretty skinny, but are they thinner than other young women? .
Do guys like small girls? Guys definitely do like short women. Many men will be attracted to their petite and diminutive looks. Short girls also help a guy feel tall, strong, and manly which can be a big attraction for many men. .
Unlike the men, women do indeed find the chest to be the body part that makes a most attractive, with 24 percent selecting a man's pecs as their top choice. This was followed by hair, at 22 percent. .
Once a man passes the initial stages of attraction and gets attached to the woman, we can assume he is deeply in love with her. Physical attraction, empathy, sexual compatibility, and emotional connection play a key role in making a man fall deeply in love with a woman.10 2021 .
Every man agrees: The hourglass shape creates instant attraction. This body shape features a wide upper body and equally wide hips, but a narrow waist. There are many reasons why men consistently rated the hourglass higher than the pear. For example, guys felt the hourglass was more balanced and curvy.
Guys are physical beings who take in everything they see. When it comes to girls and the g=features they find attractive, guys look at face symmetry, full lips, cute noses, high cheekbones, and smooth skin, as the features that draw them close to girls. .